If you don’t decide

If you do what everyone else does, you’ll get what everyone else is getting. Which is, guess what, average. It’s so simple, but there’s so many people seeing it yet not acting upon it. Not acting. Waiting to act. Not acting often feels like you’re not making a decision (yet). You’re …

Upgrades

What’s the gain? Is a relevant question when you consider an upgrade. When your basis need is satisfied, upgrades become more incremental every time. Buying a business class ticket on a short flight isn’t necessary. Or a robot vacuum cleaner. When you upgrade, try to upgrade smart. We’re very emotional …

The right moment

A perfect moment for something; writing a book, having a baby, buying a house, asking him out, making a career step, founding a business, that moment doesn’t exist. It’s a trick. It’s the friendly and compassionate words from ourselves and our loved ones, that you don’t need to do it. …

Early or hard

When there’s something big and ugly between the teeth of your interlocutor, you’ll likely say that immediately or not. It’s nearly impossible to say something about it, 45 minutes in the conversation. You just socially ‘can’t say it’ anymore after some time… The window closed. The same goes for things …

On vaccines

When vaccines were invented over 100 years ago, there were no phase 1, 2 or 3 trials. There was just a man with an idea and people desperate enough to volunteer to put crap into their body with a needle. We commonly died of pox, polio and mumps. When WO1 …