The last couple of days I’m experiencing a strong shift in the parent-kids relationship in our home. We parents think that if we aren’t directive from the early youth, the kids won’t understand nor accept our superiority. The thing is. They will obey, always. But at what cost? I discovered …
I don’t believe in perfect, just as I don’t believe in imperfect. Everything truly valuable in life requires trial and especially error. Work. Friction. Discomfort. If you fail, success tastes sweeter. So I don’t believe in the perfect house, job, car, partner or parent. I believe in ones that matter. …
We often tell others what to do. How to do. Why to do. We persuade people to change. Because we see the world differently. We want others to change. To be more like us. Or to be themselves the way we want them to be, because that’s one of our …
It’s easy to get attention when you have ‘news’. Clickbait. Actualities. Do you know why? Because people are drawn to new information. And if you (pretend like you) have that, people will listen. Fact. But isn’t it so much more valuable to earn attention with something anyone might come up …
People seek desperately for information to confirm their worldview. Why would you?
You’ve started off the year with fresh energy. How did that go? Is your ambition is growing over your head, and does your task list for tomorrow equal your potential time in the upcoming month, every day, without sleep? It’s time to start conscious rejection. The concept is simple. Start …
I enjoy the pleasure of publishing a piece of work daily. My blog. Sometimes it’s ‘pain in the ass’-hard to come up with something. But some days, it just rains topics and inspiration, and those days I write 5 drafts in an hour. Some of my best work is still …
What do you tell yourself about yourself? What do others say about you? What are you responsible for? And are you worried about it? Grab a piece of paper. Draw a circle. Everything you have influence on, write in the circle. Everything your can’t control, write outside the circle. Be …
Life is as easy or as hard as the rules you set for yourself. Once you discover your own and other people’s rules, you’re aware. Once you discover how to go with the flow, you’re free. Once you discover how to surf the waves, you’re leading the dance.
If you are like I am, you seek better. But better, for who? 2020 was a year full of gratitude for what I have and often take for granted. Like working in an office with wonderful colleagues. A healthy born baby, she’s 4 months old now. Some of the finest …