True

If what you believe, is true, and what you believe is not true (what others believe), is not true: would that make you open for different perspectives? How about what you believe is your current worldview. And what you believe not to be true, is a different perspective. That would …

Stuck

When we’re stuck, it’s not the pushing through that gives us joy. It’s not the stopping that gives us joy. It’s not doing something else we normally really like that gives us joy. It’s nothing that gives us joy. And that’s ok. Sometimes life is not about joy. Sometimes it’s …

Twenty!

Daddy: Emily, I think it’s a great idea to eat some more porridge. You might be hungry otherwise, when you’re at the preschool later. Emily: No daddy, my tummy is full, I don’t want any more porridge. Daddy: Allright babe. You know what, if you’ll have three more spoons, you’ll …

Connection

At the root of all connection you will find trust. Trust is about seeking safety; it’s an unconscious selfish act. What will and will not cause me pain or death?. When we make promises and keep them, we build that trust. We must never forget that this system of trust …

Promises

Making promises and keeping them. It’s such an easy phrase, but it’s such a hard ’talk’ to walk. The thing is: If you keep your promise. And again. And again. And again. And again. And again. Then one day you’ll be trusted. And when you have to break a promise …

Your voice

When I think of a consistent voice, I find it very difficult to come up with great examples at first. Besides the obvious. Steve Jobs.Tony Hsieh.Oprah Winfrey. Johan Cruyff. Having a voice equals standing for something. Having a voice and consistently evolve your identity around is the easy part. The …

A present

Now that retail via Amazon (and sites alike) keeps growing in this infinite loop, I can’t help but being curious where our human need for ‘human’ advice will go, just as the personal shopping experience. When we used to order online in the 00’s and early 10’s, we would have …