I enjoy the pleasure of publishing a piece of work daily. My blog. Sometimes it’s ‘pain in the ass’-hard to come up with something. But some days, it just rains topics and inspiration, and those days I write 5 drafts in an hour. Some of my best work is still …
What do you tell yourself about yourself? What do others say about you? What are you responsible for? And are you worried about it? Grab a piece of paper. Draw a circle. Everything you have influence on, write in the circle. Everything your can’t control, write outside the circle. Be …
Life is as easy or as hard as the rules you set for yourself. Once you discover your own and other people’s rules, you’re aware. Once you discover how to go with the flow, you’re free. Once you discover how to surf the waves, you’re leading the dance.
If you are like I am, you seek better. But better, for who? 2020 was a year full of gratitude for what I have and often take for granted. Like working in an office with wonderful colleagues. A healthy born baby, she’s 4 months old now. Some of the finest …
If you do what everyone else does, you’ll get what everyone else is getting. Which is, guess what, average. It’s so simple, but there’s so many people seeing it yet not acting upon it. Not acting. Waiting to act. Not acting often feels like you’re not making a decision (yet). You’re …
What’s the gain? Is a relevant question when you consider an upgrade. When your basis need is satisfied, upgrades become more incremental every time. Buying a business class ticket on a short flight isn’t necessary. Or a robot vacuum cleaner. When you upgrade, try to upgrade smart. We’re very emotional …
A perfect moment for something; writing a book, having a baby, buying a house, asking him out, making a career step, founding a business, that moment doesn’t exist. It’s a trick. It’s the friendly and compassionate words from ourselves and our loved ones, that you don’t need to do it. …
When there’s something big and ugly between the teeth of your interlocutor, you’ll likely say that immediately or not. It’s nearly impossible to say something about it, 45 minutes in the conversation. You just socially ‘can’t say it’ anymore after some time… The window closed. The same goes for things …
We were buying a positive parenting workshop recently, and I couldn’t happen to notice the free upgrade from silver to gold package… There were 3 products: bronze, silver, gold. With of course bronze the least features and gold the most. But bronze offered a free upgrade to silver and silver …
The consistent person does the things in the same way. Tells the same story. Buys at the same store. Doesn’t rethink often. Knows why he does what he does. The committed person goes for it. Wants more. Demands intense. Devotes energy. Time. Space. But often commitment comes at a price. …