Living in ’themes’

Sometimes my blogs are about intermittent fasting. Sometimes about the creation of new habits. Sometimes on personal growth. Sometimes about perspective. Sometimes it’s about marketing. Sometimes about decision making. Sometimes on relationships. Sometimes on leadership. Sometimes about progress But always if you look for the posts over the period of …

Missing the boat

We’re Marie Kondo’ing the attic at the moment, and doing this provides me with quite some learnings coming out of left field. When I was watching back old photo’s from a 10 year old (ancient) MicroSD-card (1GB haha), I discovered a photo with a book I’ve read in 2010. YouTube …

Non-negotiable

There’s space to manoeuver in every negotiation. Unless there’s not a match at all between budgets (money, time, space), let’s put those out of scope. Although there’s space to negotiate, there’s always the edges of possibility and will. Some stuff is just a bridge too far, we call that non-negotiable. …

Searching vs. Stroking

When we recently went through security in Marsa Alam airport, all people were searched. Searching. That’s what happens in security at airports. Our – now two-minus-two-weeks – daughter made a comment on what she was seeing. “Mama, that man is stroking” I only just then realized that there’s a very …

Backbone system

Everyone has a backbone system. It’s the behavior you display when stuff occurs ‘out of the ordinary’. I’ve noticed that when I come across a set-back in my life, I’m going to allow myself more ‘bad’ behavior like bad eating, less sleep, more coffee, more digital numbing (YouTube, social media) …