It’s worth mentioning that we humans try to live intentional lives, while the majority of our life is decided by coincidence.
If we accept the coincidental nature of the universe, it would reduce tremendous amounts of speed we think we want.
If we live purposeful lives, what we do is not nearly as important (and ultimately as interesting) as why and how we got here.
We can choose to look at the waves of coincidence.
We can ignore it’s there.
What we can do as well, is surf the waves.