From the childhood everyone brings patterns. Some people call them ‘rules’.
The magic tasks you have to fulfill.
“I cannot make mistakes”
“I must take care of others before myself”
And the reason to fulfill the magic task is … “otherwise I will be left alone”
We don’t know the magic tasks until we know. And today, once again in a deep conversation with my coach, I discovered some of this tasks I have been fulfilling lately.
What a tragedy. And what a wealth to see and know now.
Doing things differently because you choose so, starts with defining a situation you can choose in.